Addiction & Compulsive Behavior Therapy

Healing Beyond Shame, Finding Freedom

Addiction is often misunderstood as simply “lack of willpower.” In reality, it is about coping with pain, shame, and disconnection. At Let’s Talk Openly, we believe healing means moving beyond secrecy and judgment into empowerment, resilience, and choice.

Our Approach

Our clinical team is grounded in the work of Dr. Thuydy Nguyen’s doctoral project: A Trauma-Informed Group Curriculum for Compulsive Sexual Behaviors: Addressing Trauma, Shame, and Religious Influence. This research project combined evidence-based modalities with real-world application in both inpatient and outpatient settings.

The approach we carry forward is:

  • Trauma-Informed & Shame-Resilient → Exploring the roots of behavior with compassion and context.

  • Non-Pathologizing → Addiction is understood as a coping strategy, not an identity.

  • Evidence-Based & Holistic → Blending CBT, attachment theory, somatic grounding, motivational interviewing, and shame resilience practices (drawing on Brené Brown, SAMHSA, and current sexology research).

  • Sex-Positive & Inclusive → Honoring diverse identities, relationships, and values without judgment.

What to Expect in Therapy

First Session

Understanding your story, clarifying goals, and identifying immediate coping tools.

Who We Work With

  • Individuals seeking support for substance use or compulsive sexual behaviors

  • Couples navigating the impact of addiction on trust and intimacy

  • LGTBQ+ clients and professionals balancing identity, stress, and recovery

  • Anyone seeking an alternative to rigid, “one-size-fits all” or abstinence-only models

On-going Work

  • Developing strategies to manage urges and triggers

  • Building shame resilience and emotional regulation skills

  • Strengthen intimacy and trust in relationships

  • Addressing and reclaiming agency

Take the Next Step

Healing from addiction starts with courage and you don’t have to do it alone!

Group Option

Clients may also access Healing Beyond Shame, our group program, designed to integrate both stabilization and long-term growth.

Join Healing Beyond Shame Community

Healing doesn’t happen alone, it happens in connection. Beyond individual therapy, we invite you to be part of Healing Beyond Shame (HBS), a growing community for individuals, couples, and professionals seeking shame-resilient, trauma-informed support..

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